A Friendly Reminder.

Hi, you.
You, who I haven't seen in over a year. 

You, who I haven't spoken to in months.
You, who I texted just last week. 

Or just yesterday.
You, who I rarely ever reply to.
You, who doesn't feel the need to keep the conversation going anymore.
You, who I hardly even acknowledge now.
I love you more than any written word could ever convey to you.
I love you in the silence that follows when my phone blinks and lights up, and I read a message from you.
I smile so much
that I forget to text back.
Or in the silence when there's Nothing from you because for whatever reason, we drifted apart.

I still find myself staring at the phone.
That you'll make the first move, I hope against all hope.
And the feeling I get when I miss you,
Explaining even the tiniest fragment of what it does to me will take an eternity. 

And another one after that.
And one more after that.
Till pretty soon, we're running out of eternities.
It's like a thousand butterflies and a thousand knives
All at war with each other,
on this battlefield called Distance.
No words. No messages. No letters.
Nothing
could ever ever
describe how much I miss you.
And how dangerously, unbelievably in love I am with you.
You, who I think about every second of every minute of every hour of everyday.
You, who are so strong and so maddeningly alluring, inside and out.
You, who are chaotic within, but a beautiful disaster, nonetheless.
You, who are capable of so much more than your broken and longing heart allows you to believe.
You, who cannot fathom the immensity your presence has on the people who really truly matter.
On me.
I may not say it.
I may not show it.
You may never see me again. You may never hear from me.
But know this.
I believe in you.
I am so proud of you.
I love you.
And I miss you.

Always.

October, My Love.

October my love, how bittersweet you were.
Sweeping in unexpectedly, catching me off guard.
Always was I aware of your existence but,
never would I have deemed you to be the one to steal my heart.

October, my love.

So gentle.
So kind.
The leaves you shed around me were like a blanket,
a comforting antidote for my constantly troubled mind. 

You came in and along with you brought in the rain.
It cleansed me, 

saved me, from a fate worse than death,

now forever free of the sorrow, forever free of the pain.

You surprised me, you amazed me.
Igniting feelings that were so astoundingly quiet, I assumed them to be dead.
You breezed your way into my haunted thoughts,

and scattered my mind of all coherent beliefs.
All the while leaving scars not of pain, but of bliss instead.

October, my love, nothing lasts forever.
You were gone with the wind just as soon as you came.
November, bless him,

he was always such a problem child,
he thinks he can sweep me away.

But no, never you fear.
Patiently will I wait again, for when the wind takes over and the leaves begin to fall.
I'll listen expectantly, for in the sound of the rain,
I'm almost certain I will hear you call.

For October, you have my heart now. And my salvation, you will always be.
From now itself starts a new beginning,
The beginning of a hope that I will see you again.
In a new year, in a new world,
In a new time...
Won't you come back to me?

Pictures of You.

I looked at a picture of you today. Smiling, happy.
More in love than I'd ever seen you.
I'd never been lucky enough to be the reason for that brightness in the eyes that I'd so inexorably fallen for. I'd never seen a love and elation so powerful in those eyes, that it made the one looking at it want to delight in the joy of your happiness.
But those pictures could never make me smile. Truth be told, it did just the opposite. It broke me. It tore me up within, with the knowledge that I wasn't The One. The reason that that ecstasy in your life existed. The source of your pleasure and contentment. I died slowly, every time I looked at a picture...
a fresh cut...
a bloody and bruising reminder of the life you now had...
It would not let me forget.
It wasn't me, it never would be, it never could be.

I looked at a picture of you today. Smiling, happy.
And I waited. Waited for the grief to come and sweep me up in a blinding daze of tears and sadness. I waited for that hatred that my heart had gotten so used to, to overwhelm me. I waited for the pain of losing you, the pain that ran like a drug mixed with my blood, coursing through my veins, to engulf me. I was addicted to the hurt and the misery, and therefore I waited.
And waited.
And waited.
But nothing, no kind of sorrow was harnessed.
All that showed was a smile echoing acceptance.
And a new found forgiveness.

I looked at a picture of you today. Smiling, happy.
And for the first time, I smiled too.
My heart didn't stop.
The pain didn't come, my blood and body to claim.

I looked at a picture of you today. Smiling, happy.
And not a single trace of the emotions you once evoked in me, the ones that consumed me,
remains.

Love, Light and Everything in Between.

Do you hear that incessant noise? Can you see the extra 3 kgs on your weighing scale? Do you see the streets so empty yet so filled with beautiful lights? Well, if you don't, you probably don't, like Renelle, live in India and you're missing out on a lot. And she's totally making eyes at me now through the phone screen (What did you think? Computers? Pfft. #techswag)
By the way, hi, I'm Abhishta. You don't know me personally but, I don't know Bill Gates personally and I'm still surviving so, I'm sure you can live without knowing me. Also, I'm positive you don't know Renelle personally either. You don't right? RIGHT? *nervous giggle*
As a kid, Diwali, for me, was a festival when I lit a few crackers that excited the crap out of me (the really basic ones, I'm terrified of bombs), but more than that, it was that one time in the year where families came together. Whether it was going from house to house to visit family members or like the recent addition Skype calls for long distance family members. It's that time of the year when you don't mind cheating on your diet because, HELLO, 'kaaju katli', 'jalebis', 'gulab jamun'... You get the point (You can go open that box of sweets that you've been craving for, now.)
Firecrackers, somehow, are a part of Diwali that most of us have grown up with but it's also alarming for the environment. All I can say is, there should be a limit on firecrackers and please don't buy those Butterflies, I almost died because of one of those.
So light a diya or a sparkler, make 'rangolis', eat truckloads of sweets (cheating or not), I'll be here having Nutella on bread listening to Ed Sheeran songs, sitting at my window, enjoying my Diwali with Renelle on Google Hangouts, while she drives this blog home.
Take it away, Perairs.
Yes. That was Abhishta. Who is Abhishta, you ask? No? Well, I'm going to answer it anyway. Abhishta is my charming, happy-go-lucky, curly haired, unbelievably humorous best friend AKA the happier half of me. Yes, this is a collab blog post of funny and profound and I don't know how Abhishta forgot to mention this at the start. (She was probably too busy RUBBING SALT ON MY WOUNDS) We wanted to do this so bad. Why? Because we're awesome. Even though we're fully aware that nobody gives two shits about what we wanna say or our feelings and our emotions or what we do in life. Speaking of life, now I'm supposed to get all philosophical, after Abhishta just talked about KAJU KATLI AND GULAB JAMUN?! How is this even fair. Sigh.
I miss Diwali.
I miss Abhishta.
I miss mithai.
Ugh I miss everything.
Why you gotta be so rude, life?
You'd think, living in the City of Dreams, I would not lack light in my life. The brightness of Time Square. Laughter and love all around me, filling my entire being. Billboard signs and Taylor Swift, singing "Welcome to New York. It's been waiting for you!" But that couldn't be further from the truth. Every second of every minute of every hour of everyday I am still constantly searching for my light. For that one sparkling beam that will bring me home, to my destiny. While the light of diyas and lanterns beautifully fill up my home in India, my light- the light within me, that final brilliant burning brightness that will give meaning to my existence, still needs to be found. I am nowhere close to finding it yet, and sometimes it even seems an impossible feat. But I know, that I cannot give up. I will not give up. Because whenever a new day dawns and light from the sun illuminates my heart, it allows me to believe, to hope, that I am one step closer to that light that will bring me back to life.
Diwali, you marvelous, mesmerizing festival, I am here in another world, in another time, ready to embrace the new hope you bring every year, that someday, somehow I will find my ray of light...
In the meantime, Google Hangouts with Bishta is the perfect way to celebrate because her faith, along with so many others all these years, that one day I will shine, is what has kept my darkened heart alive.
Hey Abs Lalu, this philosophical enough for you?
Happy Diwali, peace and all our love. (Go get your own Nutella, we're not sharing)
From two best friends living on opposite sides of the world, but closer than they've ever been,
Abs Lalu & Elle Perairs.

P.S: For those of you who don't live in India, Gulab Jamun is an Indian sweet that will make your heart sigh. (Look at us. Acting like we have readers all over the world)
P.P.S: We actually, quite literally did this over chat and Google Hangouts. Do y'all have a friendship this amazing? We think not. (Forgive us, we have no social life.)

Two Sides Collide.

I have faith. I lack belief.
I have hope. Hopelessness overwhelms me.
I am alive. I am dead within
I breathe. I am crushed with suffocation.

I deserve better. I am not worthy.
I live. Only barely.
I am happy. Grief engulfs me.
I laugh. Will my silent sore tears,
Ever leave me be?

I love you.
Do I?
Please don't leave me. Stay away, step aside.
I forgive you.
Can I?
I am newly whole. Torn up inside.
I am ready.
Am I?

I am willing. I am terrified.


I hold onto angels. My soul, demons embrace.

Dear Love.

Dear Love,
I know it's been a while since we talked. I've been avoiding you because, honestly, I took a disliking to you. See I was under the impression that you had done me wrong. I let myself believe that you were this wrathful hellish emotion that wanted to leave me with nothing but a shattered heart. You hurt me once, how could I trust that you would not do it again? I cut you off, blocked you out for the sole reason that I wanted to live without you.

I must admit, I was fine for a while. Or at least that's what I kept telling myself. I didn't need you, I didn't want you. Envy, pride, Recklessness, they were all so much better than you ever were. I was better off without you.

One day, however something went wrong. Out of nowhere, I began to miss you. To need you. Reminiscing the feeling of loving and being loved overwhelmed me to a point where, all I could think about was you. I still didn't say it though. I was still stubborn enough to not let you in again.

It took me a while but eventually I realized, that you were not to blame. You weren't the one who hurt me. You tried to make it better, and I being myself, didn't quite comprehend your actions. I let the age old stereotype of 'love is painful and irrational' change my mindset.

See, what I did Love, was mistake you for Grief. I didn't think to distinguish between you two. I didn't think that it was Grief that sneaked it's way in and made you look like the culprit. When I think about the memories you gave me, all I recall is being the happiest I've EVER been. I was in love, I was loved. I was wanted, needed. I made someone happy at the mere thought of my existence, just as my heart did numerous double takes at the thought of them. I was somebody's person and they were mine. And nothing, could shake that feeling off.

Then when things went wrong and Grief set in, I thought it was you.
When Grief brought me down to my knees on a bathroom floor, I thought it was you.
When Grief took every ounce of strength I had, and put it into frequent sobs on the side of my pillow case, I though it was you.
When Grief made me believe that I would not be in this state, had I kept my heart caged and protected, I thought it was you.

When Grief left me with nothing, but make-belief solace at the bottom of a bottle, I thought it was you.

Grief, tore me and broke me and ripped every ounce of my self-worth and all that time...all that time I thought I was you.
And I hated you for it.
I swore to never let you in again, because I never wanted to feel that pain again.

People often do that, don't they? Mix up Love with Grief and then preach to the whole world, that love is painful, and overrated. It isn't love that leaves one broken and bruised, it's the idea of losing it. The pain of losing it. The grief that comes with the departure of something you hold extremely close to your heart.

Dear Love,
I'm sorry. I miss you. I miss that feeling. The positivity that I was invincible, that came with you. I miss being someone's person. I miss having my own.

Dear love,
I'm terrified at the prospect of loving again. I'm terrified of you. I'm terrified of letting you in again. But I'm ready. When Grief sweeps in, trying to sabotage our relationship, I will not give up. I am ready.

Dear Love,

I am ready.

Falling For The Enemy.

The storm rages outside, as He walks in and every eye in the room sparks up.
Through and through, you can see their souls catch fire.
Aware of the effect he has, he silently delights in the bliss of every coherent thought he disrupts.

But he doesn't stop, doesn't look to see the heads turn- men and women alike.
No, he begins to walk my way...
With all but one goal in mind.

It's hard to look away from the man making his way towards me,
His eyes, a deep sinful brown, seem to have me in a trance.
Despite the crowd, the atmosphere, the music, this perfect manifestation of a Greek God, is literally the only thing I can see.

He smiles as he gets closer, and I feel myself mirror his expression.
There was a time when I tried to shut him and his charming ways out..
..but when was I ever one to not give in...

He's the devil, I know he is.
But the ruffle in is hair begs to differ.
The wet strands curl slightly at the nape of his neck...
And it's all I can do to keep from running them through my fingers.

As he sits down next to me, I see all the markings of a bad boy, the dynamite in his eyes, the friskiness in his crooked smile.
Those lips of his will do nothing, but leave back bittersweet tingling marks.
Was I always a sucker for his kind?

I am not breaking down anymore.
He may have fixed me to a point where I might not ever crash or burn again,
I am basking in the warmth of this compelling being's affection.
His only goal being wanting to take away every past moment of my pain.

The rain pours with more gusto, and the thunder crashes ever so loudly,
But this man, and his charms ignite a fire that burns way too fiercely

When he pulls in to plant a soft kiss on my cheek and the whole room seems to heave out a sigh,
My whole being swells up with happiness at the thought, that this boy is MINE.

I have fallen for Change.

And Never...
Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined him to be this good. 

Scars.

They caught a man harassing a woman on the street.
But little do they know, the verbal harassment he weighs on her, daily.

They found a girl, brutally raped lying in an abandoned house somewhere in a deserted city.
Little do they know his brutal insults mentally strip her naked, daily.

When she decides to fight back, the world judges her.
When she doesnt, the world judges her.

Screams heard from within the house, paint her as the culprit while he comes out, helpless and taken as the victim.
They look at him with pity, while their eyes follow her path, with thinly disguised malignity...
...But little do they know, her shouts of protest, are the result of his cruel words breaking her spirit, thwarting her mind, leaving her uncomfortable in her own skin.

Words, they say make a person.
Words, they say break them too.

What however, of the words that do neither the former nor the latter, but instead leave a being dangling, suffering..
...looking...
...grasping...
for little hopeless shreds of hope.

He breaks her, hurts her, cuts her up with words sharper than knives, leaving her body lifeless and sore.
And she...she gives in to this poison that she knows will make death inevitable but very very painfully slow.

While the world convicts a man for wounding a woman physically for everyone to know.

The firebreather that once stole her heart, damages her mentally with words...
...leaving scars that will never show.

Me, Myself and Time.

2011. December. Winter had just begun to set in. Slowly but surely the iciness was starting to creep into the wind. But the chill in my heart had already settled in way before the weather. I walked home from college, despite the cold, hoping to calm my mind. The slow pace I was taking along the Carter Road boardwalk, breathing in the air would, I assumed, help clear my head. At 16, I was battling the very problem that every girl my age encounters - boyfriend drama. Except it was a lot more complicated than just wondering whether he thought I was pretty enough for him or not.
Mum broke the news to me that morning. I was packing my bag getting ready for college, when she excitedly came up to me and handed me an envelope. I looked at her quizzically wondering why she was grinning so widely. Upon opening the envelope only did I realize.I felt a flutter of excitement for a second as I read how the US Government had decided to grant us permanent residency. But almost immediately my heart sank as an epiphany dawned and all but one thing evaporated from my brain.
What about us?

A LIST OF THINGS MY BEST FRIEND AND I GET ALONG ON:
Coca-cola
John Mayer
The Beatles
Castle
Chinese
Mc.Donalds
Pizza
Playing the fool
Falling in Love
Falling out of Love
Harry Potter
Books
Blogs
Tumblr
High Heels
Sweat Pants
Singing
FanFiction
Ian Somerhalder
Youtube
Coldplay
Imagine Dragons

It's a Wednesday afternoon, in March 2013, when I get the news. Bored out of my mind from studying for the paper of a subject I don’t really like, I jump at the first ring of my phone hoping it is some kind of distraction. The distraction comes in the form of a suicide. One of my classmates, a childhood friend, has hung herself. My mind races, as everything within me suddenly goes numb. Distinctively I can hear my mother come in and ask me what the matter is. When I don’t respond, but instead fall to my knees, she panics and calls my father. I can feel hands around me, shaking me. As I clutch my stomach I look up at her and open my mouth to tell her what the problem is. All I can manage however, is a blood curdling scream.

THINGS PEOPLE HAVE SAID TO ME THAT I CAN NEVER FORGET:
Hi.
SHUT UP.
I don’t love you.
You have such pretty eyes.
What a beautiful voice!
You probably didn’t know, but I had a huge crush on you back then. Still do.
I hate you.
You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and you’re mine.
WHY ARE YOU SO LOUD?!!
You’re very hyperactive.
You’re short.
I miss you
You’re too much drama
You’re just not good enough.
Always
I love you. Always have. Always will.

2026. I sit on the steps of the church. We do not have spring in India, but it is an equally beautiful day. The sun has chosen to shine through bits and pieces of the clouds passing by instead of coming out in full swing. There are children in the courtyard playing a game called Catch and Go Cook, not cook in the literal sense, of course. At 6 years old, my little girl is just as lively as I was at her age. She’s got Will’s smile, but her eyes, hazel melting into chocolate brown, are wide and mischievous- a trait I was fondly known for all my life. I can hear her screams and the giggles that carry back to me as I sit in quiet thought. Thoughts of how a 6 year old me would play in that very courtyard. Of hanging around with a group of close friends after choir rehearsal or Sunday mass. Of secret hideouts and competitions in the adjoining school auditorium. Of romantic little rendezvous’ on those very steps or in the classrooms. Of jumping about in the hallways or learning about God in Sunday School.
Dreams...
Memories...
Hopes...
Desires...
Sitting in the church pews and looking for strength when all seemed lost. It has been 12 years since I last came home. I expected difference and change. Instead everything seems just the way it was when I left. The memories come- straight and fast- as I move to sit on that corner pew, the one I almost always associated with his presence. It amazes me that a part of my mind remembers him still. The way he walked, the square of his shoulders, the tangled mess in the front that was his hair. His eyes. The love, the laughter, the hurt, the passion, the anger, the indifference in them. And that guitar on his back. So used to him I was, that despite the distance, all these years, I have every inch, every feature of his face commited to memory.

Suddenly I’m 15 again with not a care in the world. All that matters is that boy. That boy and the emotions he could awaken within me.

Wish I, I Wished.

Wish I'd eaten something for breakfast this morning.
Wish I'd left a minute earlier and gotten the train I just missed.
Wish I hadn't accidentally missed my station because I was too sleepy to pay attention.
Speaking of which,
Wish I'd slept early last night.

Wish I'd bought that Tuna sandwich.
Wish I'd picked up that extra complimentary pair of free headphones.
Wish I hadn't left an important valuable on that counter, absentmindedly.

Wish I'd paid more attention...
..to everyone and everything.
Wish I'd been smarter, wiser.
Wish I hadn't worn my heart on my sleeve.
And to the advice that told me to stay away and run as fast as I possibly could, wish I'd paid more heed.

Wish I didn't know...
Didnt know then, didnt know now.
Wish I hadn't seen the way you looked at me...
Looked at me then, looked at me now.
Wish I hadn't fought for the love I believed I wanted
But rather lived with the love I knew I had.

Wish I stood my ground for what truly...truly mattered.
Wish I hadn't seen the side of you, or me, that almost completely broke me.
Almost.
Wish I didnt know all the things I know about you...
...like a keeper to your Fidelius Charm.
Because it makes me sick to my stomach to know now, that I'm not the only one.

Wish I could still have it in me, to love you the way I did.
But the answer, after months and months of searching, is that I dont.
I Don't Love You Anymore.
And I wish, every single day, that I could just pluck up the courage to let you know.

So many wishes, all left unsaid.
All left undone.

The Diary Of An Abandoned Heart.

"You're the best things that's happened to me in all my years on this earth" is what I would've said to him, had I gotten the opportunity. But no. There were no explanations or words of depart. He left without giving me a chance to even say goodbye.

Every morning, its the same sinking feeling as I open my eyes to the harsh stillness that is his side of the bed. I still haven't quite gotten used to waking up without him...
...How he'd tell me I was the prettiest in the morning.
Sheets that usually are a bundle of tangled linen from his tossing and turning all night, remain neatly folded and untouched. The eerieness of it unsettles me. I can still smell his scent all around me, on the bed, on my clothes, my body. Or maybe its all just in my head.

I go through the day. Quietly and subtly. A song reminds me of him as it blares on the radio and appeals to listeners all around. But not me, no. For me its a bittersweet symphony. For me, I'm transported back to what seems like ages ago. To a conversation..
To a corridor...
To a beautiful blue eyed boy...
As I go through the day, I pass the town square, the park where we used to meet. I pass the chapel on the corner, while The bells chime over and over again as if to say, "He's here. He always will be."
But it doesn't feel that way.

My loved ones are watching me, cautiously. Waiting for me to break or implode with the sadness and pain his departure has caused. I tell them I'm fine. It is a lie, told ofcourse in the hopes that one day ill believe it myself.
They're waiting to catch me if I fall but the truth is, I've been falling ever since that fateful day.
Falling into a bottomless pit. Slowly getting sucked into oblivion...
And there's nothing they, or I can do about it.

The nights are the worst. Its when the nightmares come. He'd always have some kind of music playing, pulling me into his arms and twirling me around the hall when we got home. Now all that's left is a cold and empty space. Just like the one im in within my body.
I go to bed and lay there for hours, hoping that at any minute Il wake up from this nightmare and he'll comfort me back to sleep. But it only worsens as I close my eyes and let all of his haunting memories take over me...
Slowly...but surely.

Truth is, I haven't been the same since the day he walked. And it shows through slight cracks in the facade I put on to convince the world im okay.
Truth is, I don't think I'll ever recover from this loss, this abandonment. With him gone, the ground has slipped from under my feet. And I've been running ever since.
Truth is, this nightmare will never end, I know. But there's nothing I can do about it.


Another day. Open my eyes. Repeat.

Home.

Resurrection Ascension Church, Woodhaven Boulevard- Queens.

I sit on the third to last pew on the right side of the church.  Sunlight streams through the tainted windows that depict various scenes and different incidents from the Bible.  The 11.00 mass has just ended.  The crowd slowly makes its way to the door.  Some stop to greet people they know.  Some try to keep up with their four and six year olds as they run along the benches and down the aisles. Others converse with the pastor who has just celebrated the Eucharist.  The sacristan clears the altar.  He puts the chalice in a rectangular little box with a cross on it, and puts the Eucharist in the tabernacle set in the Blessed Sacrament behind the altar.  The cross on the left is covered as a reverence, and the coming of Easter.  A little ahead of me, sits a man probably in his late 40s.  He doesn't seem to move, or want to make his way to the door.  On my left, in the center of the church, or at least somewhat in the center, sits a Baptismal fount.  It is a circular basin that overflows water into a pool at the base.  I was told that people, who wished to convert to Christianity, were dipped into the water and baptized as Jesus was, at the river Jordan all those lifetimes ago.  The basin is used for newborns, while the Easter candle which bears the symbols of The Alpha and Omega – The Beginning and The End, stands tall at the side of the basin waiting to be lit during the Easter Vigil.    

I’m not that religious, really.  Do I believe there is a god?  Yes.  Do I believe that everyone should believe the same?  No.  For me, coming for Sunday mass has become more of an obligation rather than keeping the Sabbath Day holy.  I look on at the pastor, as he greets people, and imagine the things transpiring between the two parties.  Some ask for his blessings and to intercede their prayers, while others tell him of marvels that have occurred in the name of the Almighty Father.  No, I’m not religious.  Nevertheless, it doesn’t mean I don’t have FAITH.

May, will mark a year since I first set foot into this country.  In these past months, I have had ups and I have had downs.  Times when I have wished for nothing more than to go home.  Back to where I came from.  Back to the known and the familiar.  Back to where my life meant something and my dreams were just dreams.  Back to the comfortable little bubble that I built my whole world in.  I have had moments when I have felt lost and defeated.  Let down and thrown off guard by that cruel visitor called Change.  And at that time when nothing seemed easy and everything seemed lost, that time when everything around me felt strange and alien, this church, this 3rd to last pew on the right hand side is what reminded me of home.  Of the all the times I spent at the back of that church back in India, and had screaming matches with God.  (Well, technically I was screaming in my head because we were supposed to observe silence.)  It reminded me, of the days I sat and cried through my first heartbreak and begged Him to JUST MAKE THE PAIN STOP.  The times of immense joy that I shared with him in the form of swigs of wine sneaked from the Sacristy.  This church reminded me that no matter how lost I am, or however defeated I feel, I could always come home.  To Him.  Because he was home.  And ALWAYS would be.  Right in the heart of the unknown and the unfamiliar.

The man sitting ahead of me still hasn’t moved.  Maybe, like me, it isn’t only mass that confines him to the four walls of this place.

Things she said...

"I'm lost." she said.
"I can't do this anymore." she said.
"It's too much." she said.
"I'm a burden" she said.

"I've got nothing" she said.
"I am nothing" she said.  
"I will always be nothing" she said.
"I'm not capable" she said.
"It's too painful" she said.

"I'm not strong enough" she said
"I'm not good enough" she said.
"I'm not worthy enough" she said.
"It's too much to bear" she said.

"I'm happy" she said.
"I'm okay" she said.
"I'm better" said.
"I'll be fine" she said.
 
"This is it" she said.
"No more hurt" she said.
"I'll be free" she said.
"It's over" she said.

"Goodbye, pain" she said.
"Hello, death" she said.

The Last Song.

The last song we sang was a song of hate. A song that I'd gotten so used to hearing. So much so, that you could say I'd even begun to love it...
The masochist that I am, I'd even come to enjoy it...
But there was only so much even a masochistic being like me could endure.
It was the final hurtful notes I would encounter at your hands.
The last song we sang was one of insults. Where you ran me down in the only way, the only language you knew I'd understand.
The only thing that you knew would hit home...
For months I listened to you compose ballads about how I was never good enough. How despite how many times you said it, eventually, I was never the girl you loved.
It never really settled in, even now sometimes, I go back, play the song, listen to the tune and wonder why?
But I realize that deep down I always knew this song- OUR song- would be over...way before its end was nigh.
And all those months I believed you... Just like I'd believed you whenever after any song, your eyes would meet mine. I had a hard time accepting, what everyone else around me already saw, I had a hard time accepting that you couldn't be anything else, but right.
If I could now, I swear I would go back in time and listen to my own subconscious subtle song of advice.
So this last song... The one that you filled with hatred and painful words, was a song of acceptance. A song that cracked through my dark hole and finally gave me a glimpse of light.

A light, a song, a melody that will now forever be MINE.

Unkissed

Somewhere in a quiet little town, a little boy cries.
He's alone in his bedroom, with nothing but his toys to keep him satisfied.
He can't seem to make sense of the shouting and harsh words being exchanged, beyond his bedroom door and down the hall.
But the only thing he wants is to feel the soothing voice of his father and the warm kisses from his mother, sheltering him from it all.
But his mommy and daddy, forget to acknowledge his existence...so engulfed in the heated exchange of words they are.
They fail to remember that little boy, who wants nothing more than to be comforted and missed.
As he falls asleep...scared, without hope and unkissed.

Somewhere  on a battlefield, a man falls to his death.
And while he breathes his last, there is all but one image that comes to his head.
The face of a beauty so pure and serene.
The gap that his absence will now bring...
The hole in her heart that will now form from him being terribly missed.. as she learns to go on without him.....
...Alone and Unkissed.

Somewhere, in the middle of nowhere a girl sits by herself.
Shes battered. shes bruised, shes broken, having known the lustful pleasures of this world all too well.
She knows an act of passion, she feels it grow with every man she entices... she walks the streets for money, having never known the gentle refuge of a man's warm embrace.
She enjoys it, her senses entwine itself in it...only because she believes that's who she is.
But at the end of the day, she's still a girl with a heart that's never been touched...
A mind that's never been loved.
...And a soul that still remains Unkissed.

He knows how much he misses her, deep down somewhere in his questioning heart.
He goes through everyday free and embracing life, but the absence of her essence leaves him in the dark.
She needs him, wants him. She's fallen hard, she knows that now.
But she wont let her guard down, her ego has her sitting on a throne, high and proud.
Both of them...on a break that neither can survive,
but neither will admit, thinking of what's best for the other therefore taking it in their stride...

The very core of their hearts, overwhelmed with longing and the regret of letting him go...
..Unkissed. 

I Love Me, He Loves Me Not.

For the most part of this past year, I was determined to believe that I was anything but wrong. And while a part of me still believes it, I know now that I was, that I am, everything that a good girl isn't made of.
I loved you. I loved you so strongly, it set me on a high, that I found very hard to come down from. So when gravity finally slapped me back on concrete, all I wanted to do was curl up and lay on the ground in the ashes of a fire that id lit and fueled, all on my own.
I hated you. I hated you so fiercely that after a certain point, all I could feel was anger for something that I had subconsciously done but pinned on you. Anger that killed every bit of innocence that resided in this now hard heart of mine.
I envied you. Because you had everything that I wanted. That id always wished for. Everything that id almost had, but that I let slip away helplessly. YOU were everything that I needed and could never have.
I despised you. I despised you, for the way you treated me. The way you made me feel so loved and then crumpled me like a piece of paper.  Because of how badly you let me down. I forever believed in you and convinced myself that you could never be wrong. And yet, it seems to me now, that you never thought highly of me in the first place.
I was never good enough for you...
And probably never will be.
All of this, all of you, is what had me waking up in cold sweat with a pounding heart for the past year. Because I couldn't stop the dreams...the nightmares. The pain that felt so real, it was impossible to believe my subconscious was playing dark twisted games with me. While I could say I tried to fight it ( I attempted to, a couple of times.) I would be lying if I said I gave it my all. Because despite everything, the pain was something I had decided to hold dear.
As the only remainder of what was, I secretly let it take over.
I embraced and enjoyed the agony.
However I couldn't spend the rest of my life succumbing to the numbness. The choking feeling had to stop...
It had to end...
Yes, I was difficult, I was stubborn and hard to understand. But that never gave you the right to shun me and put me down. It never gave you the right to leave me at a time when I needed YOU the most.
And I realize now that I was always better than you made me out to be.
With or without you.
No, I'm not a good girl. I'm not even close. What I am though, is a believer and a fighter. And for the last year and a half Id forgotten this. I had gotten so used to being loved by you, that id forgotten how to love myself. And when finally you stopped I didn't know how to be anything but broken. I didn't know how to look at myself in the mirror and find the girl that- not YOU but- I loved.
The girl I am here, today is the truth of my reality. I'm impulsive and dramatic and never easy.
I will never be good enough for you...
Because you want the best, and I'm anything but. This is who I am, this is all I can be. Flaws and all, even if you tried, you could never really love me.
The essence of you that i used to feel around me, has danced away with the wind...like the ashes of the fire I had started, which eventually led me to my impending doom.  And while a little of you is still a part of me, everyday it fades faster and faster...like the scars of a battle, slowly dissolving into my tender flesh covered with layers and layers of my skin.
Never to be seen.
Never to be known.
Never to be felt.
EVER AGAIN.